Certified Sex Surrogate Partner
Malibu, California | Phone: 818-718-2797
My name is Tamar Reilly. I am a certified surrogate partner therapist in the Malibu area with over 20 years of skillful experience. I am trained by the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA).
I am also a member of The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT.org), and a member of The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (sexscience.org). I lecture worldwide at universities and various events, discussing surrogate partner therapy and its effectiveness. I've helped hundreds of clients through the years by bring a very caring and compassionate approach to my work. I'm open-minded, nurturing, sensual, playful, loving and wise.
My lifelong goal is to help people, which is what prompted me to become a surrogate. My personal reward is, I receive great pleasure and joy in knowing that I'm helping to transform my client's lives in a way that will have immediate impact and long lasting results.
My philosophy on surrogacy is that client benefits by returning to the here and now and leaving old thought processes of sexuality behind. Responding to the physical body will help to overcome certain difficulties they may be experiencing in their lives. I leave the talk therapy to the therapist and I deal with the body work.
I strongly believe in the triadic relationship between the client, therapist and surrogate is crucial to the clients ability to properly process this experience. Because this work is very intimate and intense, I only work with licensed psychologists, psychotherapists, MFT's and sex therapists. The three of us create a support team for you. Both you and I communicate with the therapist and you receive maximum help and understanding for your problem. The goal of the therapy is to understand and resolve whatever is inhibiting a person's sexual success.
What types of clients do I work with?
I work with all ages, issues, and genders. I can help with:
- Reducing anxiety
- Connecting with your body's sensations
- Shed inhibitions
- Release misconceptions about sex
- Learn how to ask for what you want
- Developing healthy relationships
- Feel more comfortable with intimacy
- Address adult virginity
- Erectile insufficiency
- Early Ejaculation
- Delayed Ejaculation
- Body Image Issues
- Gain self-love and self-acceptance
- Overcome sexual problems
- Unlock your unexplored sexual potential
- Develop social skills to make you a better date
I'm available for weekly and bi weekly sessions, but I also do intensive schedules, where the client comes from out of town, for anywhere from 5 to 14 days. Intensives are for 3 hours each day, every day and the client sees the therapist for one hour a day as well. I'm happy to refer clients to therapists in the Los Angeles area.
I look forward to hearing for you so that you don't have to spend another day living with pain, fear or sexual discomfort. Surrogate partner therapy is so powerful, it's life transforming.
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